Monday, February 5, 2007

free online dating sites

There are many free online dating sites, services and personals that you can use to your heart's content. In fact, most of the largest, most reputable and most popular online dating services offer free trials.

You need to realize though, that these dating sites, services and personals limit the functionality of their services when you access it for free. The whole goal of giving you free online dating services actually, is to convince you to sign up for the full services.

Joining an online dating site is usually less expensive for a full month's membership, than it is to go out clubbing with friends in one night. Now that doesn't mean you should join every single one you come across, because that will be hard to keep up with and the costs will add up. So using the free trial options is usually the best way to get an idea of how well you might like the services. Sometimes though, the free online dating options can be more frustrating than anything else. Let's take a look at some common restrictions you'll run in to.

1. Most online dating services allow you to create your own dating profile even during the free trial. This is the very first thing you should do. The free version however, might not allow you to put up a picture, and this could cause you to see very few responses.

Pictures are very important to have in your online dating profile. Without them, you may get little to no attention, and this could cause you to believe the online dating service isn't worth joining. Be aware this is not always the case. Even paying members of an online dating site will not get much attention to their dating profile if they have no pictures put up.

So whenever possible, pick free dating sites and services which allow you to put up at least one picture. This will help you get a much more accurate idea of how well the service might work for you.

2. Some free dating sites may limit your profile. Related to the above, the free version of an online dating service might limit how much information you're able to add to your profile. It may restrict you to basic fields for instance, or only allow you to enter a few paragraphs of information and nothing more.

Good, interesting profiles can be made with these restrictions, but you'll have to spend some time and effort on it. If you just put up a few sentences that aren't overly appealing or interesting, you might find you're getting much less attention from people looking at your profile. So do the best you can with any restrictions that might be in place, and keep in mind that you'll usually have much more room and flexibility once you've joined the dating service as a paying member.

3. Communications will be limited. One of the biggest restrictions you'll find with free online dating services is that you're not able to chat or email with other members. You might be able to send a smile, or wink, or some little canned "you're cute" message, but you won't usually be able to actually talk about yourself in detail.

So if you find someone you're really interested in knowing more about - or someone starts showing a lot of interest in your profile - it'd be best to upgrade from the free service to the regular membership so you can actually get to know them and have much more fun!

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